These last few days of hurricane prep has taught me how lucky I was and still am. 

I had a real “workin’ man” for over a decade. He went to work, busted his butt, came home fixed everything, built everything. Never complained. And taught me how to take care of myself. 

I grew up with a dad who is super handy as well. He helps me and teaches me the things that I didn’t have the time to learn or be taught by Duane. 

I realized over the last few days that I have a real issue with people that can’t take care of their own shit. They can’t fix anything and are not even willing to try, they just blame it on someone/ something else. I don’t know why it bothers me so much, but it does, I equate it to laziness. I equate it to not taking care of yourself or your family. I know that that thought is wrong and it is not true but it bugs the crap out of me. I think if I can learn it then anyone can. At least try. 

People are going to read this and think I’m mean and unrealistic but this bugs me more than anything! Its not even any of my business how people live their lives – but if I hear about it – lord help me. hahahahahaha I don’t mean to be catty, I’m just sharing my feelings. 

So with everything ready, I can now sit back and relax and wait for Flo. 

– xoxo Victoria